Fifty Shades of Grey is being released for Valentine’s Day, so you’ll think it’s a romance. Don’t fall for it. The movie is actually about a sick, dangerous relationship filled with physical and emotional abuse. It seems glamorous, because the actors are gorgeous, they have expensive cars and private planes, and Beyonce is singing. You might conclude that Christian and Ana are cool, and that even though their relationship is different, it’s acceptable.

　　《五十度灰》在情人节上映，所以你会觉得很浪漫。不要相信哦。这部电影其实讲的是一段病态且危险的恋爱关系，其中充斥着肉体和情感的折磨。该片看似光鲜，是因为演员们很美，他们拥有昂贵的汽车和飞机，而且碧昂斯倾情献唱。你可能就下结论认为，克里斯蒂安和安娜很棒;即使他们的关系是不一样的，也是可以接受的。

　　As a doctor, I’m urging you: do NOT see Fifty Shades of Grey. Get informed, learn the facts, and explain to your friends why they shouldn’t see it either.

　　作为一名医生，我强烈建议你，不要去看《五十度灰》。让自己了解真相，向你的朋友们解释为什么他们也不应该去这部电影。

　　1.Girls want guys like Christian who order them around and get rough.

　　误区一：女生们喜欢像克里斯蒂安这样的男生对她们发号施令，并且动粗。

　　No! A psychologically healthy woman avoids pain. She wants to feel safe, respected and cared for by a man she can trust. She dreams about wedding gowns, not handcuffs.

　　不对!心理健康的女性会避免痛苦。在一个她信任的男人那里，她想要感到安全感，受他尊重，被他照顾。她会憧憬婚礼礼服，而不是手铐。

　　2.Guys want a girl like Anastasia who is meek and insecure.

　　误区二：男生喜欢像安娜斯塔西娅这样温顺，没有安全感的女生。

　　Wrong. A psychologically healthy man wants a woman who can stand up for herself. If he is out of line, he wants her to set him straight.

　　不对。心理健康的男人想要的是能捍卫自己的女人。如果他做出什么出格的事情，他希望她能纠正他。

　　3.Anastasia exercises free choice when she consents to being hurt, so no one can judge her decision.