1.The Follow Up

　　约会结束的后续

　　Generally speaking, once the date ends and you parted ways, chances are you told her something along the lines of “Text me when you get home to let me know you’re safe," or something to that effect. If she had a good time, there’s a good chance she’ll end up texting back and forth with you for a little while afterwards.

　　通常来说，约会结束你们分开走的时候，你就应该趁机告诉她类似于“到家的时候给我发个短信，告诉我你安全到家了，”或者一些能起到那种效果的话。如果她过得很开心的话，很有可能到家过一会儿就跟你来回短信。

　　If communication drops off entirely once you part ways, sorry to say, there’s a good chance she didn’t really have that good of a time and was just trying to save face and not make things awkward

　　如果你们分开走之后就完全没有任何交流了的话，很抱歉地告诉你，可能她过得并不怎么愉快，之前都只是给你留面子，不想事情弄得太尴尬。

　　2.The Goodbye

　　道别

　　Chances are if she had a good time, she’s going to be open to or possibly even suggest potential future plans together. Maybe you guys talked about how you both haven’t seen that one movie yet, or dined at that restaurant yet, or there’s a bar that you should both check out. That’s a pretty obvious in for a date in the future, and if any of this type of conversation happened, your date went pretty well.

　　如果她过得很开心的话，她就会跟你一起谈谈甚至建议下一次的约会计划。也许你们两个会谈到一部两个人都没看过的电影，或是两人没一起吃过的那家餐馆，又或者你们俩应该去同一家酒吧看看。那就很明显你们会有下一次约会了，如果有任何类似于这种的对话，你这次的约会就很成功了。

　　3. It Went On Longer Than Expected

　　约会时间比预期的要长

　　If you want to know if your first date was a success or not, take a look at how long it went on. When dinner, or whatever the first part of your date ended, did you ask her to go somewhere else? Did she say yes or no? These are the questions you need to ask yourself.

　　如果你想知道你的第一次约会是否成功，只要看看它持续了多久时间就行。晚饭的时候，或者你第一次约会结束的时候，你有没有邀请她跟你去别的地方?她答应了还是拒绝了?这些都是你需要问你自己的问题。

　　If she did happily accompany you to whatever second venue you guys decided on, that’s definitely a good sign. It means that she at least wanted to see a little more of you and get to know you better.

　　如果她开心地陪你到任何你决定去的地方，那肯定是个好的征兆了。这就意味着她至少想多看看你，更好地了解了解你。

　　4. She Remembered The Little Things

　　她记得细节

　　If she was into you when she was on the date she likely paid a lot more attention to the little details, and also asked a lot more questions than she would have if she didn’t really care for you. So, if later on in the date you found that she remembered details that you mentioned very casually in passing, that’s definitely a sign that the date went well.

　　如果她喜欢你的话，你们约会的时候，她就可能会关注很多细节部分，同时也喜欢问你很多问题，如果她不是真的在乎你的话，她何必这样做呢。所以，到约会后面部分的时候，如果你发现她记得那些你走路的时候随意提到的细节，那绝对是约会进行地很顺利的征兆。

　　5. Her Body Language

　　她的肢体语言

　　If she wanted to impress you and you took her to a nice restaurant, there’s a good chance she tried to look extra nice. If you notice any of the more obvious, difficult-to-confuse positive body-language signals from her, you probably won’t be wrong in assuming your first date was a success.

　　如果你带她去了一个很好的餐厅，她想让你印象深刻的话，她很有可能会试着让自己看起来很好。如果你注意到其中一点——她很主动地做出一些暗示尤为明显的动作的话，你可能没猜错——第一次约会很成功哦。

　　6. You Had Her Attention

　　你抓住了她的注意力

　　If she was enjoying the date, you had her attention. How much, if she was sitting there texting back and forth with her friends while you were together, that’s a bad sign.

　　如果她很享受这次约会的话，那你就赢得了她的注意。赢得多少呢?如果你们两个在一起的时候，她一直坐在那儿跟朋友发短信的话，那就是个不好的信号。

　　If she was into the date, she would have avoided her phone. If she couldn't look away the whole evening and it made you feel like the most interesting man in the world, you had a successful first date.

　　如果她喜欢这个约会，她就不会玩手机了。如果她整晚都没有看别处的话——好像你是世界上最有趣的男人，你的第一次约会就成功了。

　　7. Deep Conversation

　　更深入的对话

　　If you spent the whole date talking about both of your jobs and how the weather was last weekend, you probably didn’t hit it off. When you’re on a good date, you tend to get lost in the conversation, and before you know it the time has flown by. If every step of the way it felt like you were desperately trying to dig for something to talk about, it probably didn’t go that well.

　　如果你们整个约会都在谈论彼此的工作及周末天气如何的话，你们两个也许没能一拍即合。约会很顺利的话，你就会谈得很多，甚至都不知道时间过了多久。如果你每一次都是绝望地试着找话题聊，那这次约会就不顺利了。

　　8. You Had A Lot In Common

　　你们两个有很多相同之处

　　Finding common ground is definitely a great early sign that things went well on your date. It could be as simple as your favorite brand of breakfast cereal growing up or your unreasonable obsession with comic books. It shows that you were both comfortable enough to open up and share your interests, which can be challenging when you are just meeting someone. You don’t know how they’re going to react to your interests, so if everything goes smoothly here, this is a great sign.

　　发现相同之处绝对是你约会进行地很顺利的最早的信号。这也许很简单：比如你们从小到大最喜欢的早餐谷物牌子、或是你们对于漫画书不可理喻的痴迷。这都表明你们两个可以很好地敞开心扉，分享彼此的兴趣爱好，刚遇到某个人的话，这也许是个挑战。你不知道她们会对你的兴趣做出怎么样的反应，所以如果事情到这儿还是发展顺利的话，一定是个好的信号。

　　9. It Started Well

　　有一个好的开始

　　When you guys first said met and said your hellos, was there a connection right away? Did you feel comfortable pretty quickly or was it awkward for most of the night? Did it feel like she was trying to make it go smoother or did you have to do all the work? If she wasn’t feeling it, she probably didn't ask you too many questions, and didn’t try all that hard to lead the discussion anywhere. The early part of the date can be a good indicator, but even if things were a bit stale then, there’s still always the chance that things turned around later.

　　当你们刚见面打招呼的时候，有没有一拍即合?有没有很快就觉得很放松了，还是说整个晚上都觉得很尴尬?她看起来是不是在努力缓和气氛或者你是不是一直都在一个人努力着?如果她不怎么喜欢这次约会的话，她可能不会问你很多问题，也不会试着去找话题。约会开始的时候就会给你一个好的暗示，但是即便随后的发展有点倦怠，也还是会有机会扭转局面的。

　　10. Pre-Date Signs

　　约会前的信号

　　The things that happened leading up to the date can tell you a lot about how interested she was in the date in the first place. Did she show up on time? Did she reschedule it? If every other part of the date seemed to go south, you might want to look all the way back to the beginning to see if there were any red flags before you two even started your first date.

　　约会之前发生的事情会告诉你，最初她对这次约会有多大的感兴趣。她准时到了吗?她跟你改时间了吗?如果所有约会的其他部分都是糟糕的，那就往回看看最开始，你们俩甚至还没有第一次约会之前的时候是不是有什么危险信号。

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